The Past was produced by who you are. Your personality walks into the room before every relationship you get into. & it’s intent…is to resolve something subconsciously askew yet integral to all current definitions of “you” that said personality truly believes it can address with the latest person that appeals to it…

This may explain the rubric of relationship patterns repeating themselves seemingly against our wills.

All of this could be terrifying if the personality was not a lie.

Finding out which past relationship pattern is actually trying to execute itself with this new person is earth shaking.

Especially when you’re ready for it, but did not see that particular “it” coming.

That healing crisis, that sheer sickness is very real. More real than the personality triggering it by holding onto trying to heal something that is actually meant to die.