Mostly-seeing[not all] WORD Nerd here…
Yeah, the unapologetically authentic Black women who sincerely date[or have often dated] good Whyte dudes coalition are absently peeping the Taylor Swift dickmatized by the Cleveland dude that mainly was dating said coalition with matching sincerity & authenticity pre-Swiftness micro-aggressive, race-baiting, and outright coded[ full stop] insecurities the lyrics of that album reveal overall.
The thing is that …ain’t even the real Tea OF zee artistic offering. The gag is that as she dawg-walks him around publicly
(in that usury-ish “See! I am finally getting married~!” way that certain chicks have been groomed to interpret as adult womanhood by their progenitors INSTEAD of Love)
…she’ont even LIKE that dude.
Everyone is catching her “coming for his ex” bullets in her deceptively mid lyrics keyed to vids already public [to foment BS]. But once again…it’s reading comprehension. She’s not “coming” for that girl. She…can’t. & knows it.
That’s why she pointedly said things in those lyrics… in hopes of whipping up her fans IN the lyrics to do what Tayedawg just…is not equipped to do in this situation… Which is to harass that girl. Who ain’t stutting her.
& her own fans are mutinying because they smell the BS in the whip-up attempt.
Go ahead…go read the lyrics again.
Taye-dawg is flabbergasted HE was in it for real[with a black girl?! the noive’of’em!!] and said Black girl ended it.
(absently-clearly because he did something stupid from insecurity, like probably listening to folks miserable in their relationships around him who didn’t like that she was Black & who finally, like leavening…got in his ear…probably because he didn’t see they were his OPS whilst they showboated racistly about being Her OPS. They were pissy about His happiness…and she was like “…nah. Not doing this, goodbye. It goes that way more often than it should…)
Taye-dawg still sees that girl’s actual love for him in HIS eyes. It’s not a Getbackwith love that she can cast as a threat & work with, either.
& Sometimes the cigar is just a simple, fucking cigar… If She’s [Tayedawg’s] been with No One who holds her in the regard he held his exes with…if everybody was just a show, showing when it came to her….She is out of her depths when he’s balls deep in’er. Sorry for the visuals, but it is what it is.
& even if her exes weren’t… frolicking around with her in that machine ? She made them morph INTO that transactional show. And THIS may be the first grown-assed, passive-aggressive rage over that shit that she’s done, how she’s moved …coming up out of her finally being with someone not wired for the BS as such. Because it is certainly allll over those lyrics.
& there’s space for “aww, 30s are for figuring out exactly how much Bullshit you were programmed into being about, calling it adulthood” in that.
UNTIL… the petulant Whyte woman whytewomaning…
Actually DAWGS him for it.
and lyrically demotes the clarity, THE breath of fresh airisms.. of his energy.
Dude’s birthstone is Opal. A Powerful as fuck fucking stone. & what does she do, thankless-double-entendreing the guy[ Trying to energetically misname the guy to fuck him, folks] style?
She crows about him being Opalite instead– a shoddy, synthetic, man-made , imitation Of Opal hocked to the masses.
Word Spells. That’s what she wants her pussy to change his ass into…so they’ll last. & so her string of…past hits(read that as you like)… in this sector…will continue.
She not only doesn’t give a FLYING FUCKETY-fuck about that guy…It reads like it is because she knows he’s technically an authentically Good guy.
& that’s just fucked up.
For her.
Now…regarding all the Neophytes (Black AND White) reading all kinds of blackface insult-incentivizing in Taye-dawg’s bringing up Black Onyx…
Whytewimmin running around with their interpretive dance-y, racialized for no reason other than inner insecurity nonsense ( that this current era has them so sopped full-a that it’s dripping from their pores by default anyway)…
Even if she meant for them to latch onto that shit & run with it…I’m actually going to give her the grace of the benefit of the doubt on that one. She’s not prosaically differentiating between Opal & Opalite not knowing her gemstone shit, only to try to cast Black Onyx as an insult.
(tho, American Woman-womaning… I also must leave space for That travesty…as a possible actuality).
IYKYK. Those are GEMHEAD/CRYSTALHEAD refs.
When, in reality…ACTUAL gemstone utilizers all KNOW
Black Onyx is one of the most powerful and protective stones on f ureaking Earth.
now…iono what that Boy done did to get Kayla to dump him…but her love (even IF it is long-gone, technically) is somehow protecting that dude from some Shiiiit whilst he is fn IN it.
Those former very real Black Girlfriends that Cleveland Heights footballer-bro motherfucker had before Taye-dawg are, somehow by the grace of all things Holy, protecting him from the worst of whatever she’s trying to put on him.
& Honestly? I grew UP with Dawg Pound mommas like those Kelce boys.
It may not even be his exes. It very well could be his momma psychically getting all “oh, no you will Not! Not to My Boy~!” in this shit.
In her quest to turn how the world interprets him from the symbolism of Opal into mediocre Opalite… there’s been a stop-gap she is trying to sing out of her way and it is Not working.
…and she’s even livid AS she puts on the show, embedding all the “I’m going to discard him like my ass is Elizabeth Taylor once I make this ‘people cheering for me finally being married off ‘ money” psychologically askance shit into it.
It actually is low-key a Masterclass. Honestly said.
In what? is the question it’s technically not my place to answer. Sommayallknow.
But if she marries him she’s going to be in hell , of her own accord.
She’ll have no one to blame but Herself for not waiting for actual Love after the carnage wrought over her personal life in the past.
End of the day~ Even if Taye-dawg is trying to be racist…
(& tho I don’t care… the jury is out on that one for me, lyrics-wise, at least.& I have no inclination to go surveying, frankly)
I can’t shake this aint about stupid, wannabe “white supremacy” at all. It read like stupid, wannabe “seen as in Love” fuckery. …that frankly, has tagged us all, if we’re fn alive.
Those Ophelia refs may be because before him how she moved through dudes for work had her wanting to drown herself inna tub.
God and the universe tends to give you a “fine~that’ll will do” right before the real one you’ve been praying for is available to you… to see if you’ll give up on your dreams.
&There’s no curse if you jump on it, per se. God & the universe knows you’re tired.
But still. The entire point is to have courage…to want what you really, truly want & not fuck up your life or dreams fucking “Filler,” or waste away with the Fill-in.
We’re impatient as fuck, most of the time.
But the rewards are huge when we can walk out whatever is in us making it untenable for what we truly desire to harmonize With us.
He’ll figure it out, maybe make some serious bank in the process. & she will too. & Her fans will learn Not to use dudes for fucking fairytales in lieu of being vulnerable enough to actually just really try to love a motherfucker so your motherfucking ass can be hopefully fully loved all the way back.
-AB
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