“When you fight something, you are tied to it forever. As long as you’re fighting it, you are giving it power. You give it as much power as you are using to fight.”
Aaron Doughty
It’s that… it was done TO hurt us. By 6 groups who disparaged us daily (whilst appropriating )for being authentically ourselves…six clusters it’ll decimate before it even can look our way, full.| What hate gives the Hater. Everytime. Eventually.
You will always be “too much” to people who are emotionally unavailable
Aaron Doughty
You will be “just right” to the person meant for you…
Let it be a filter that if you meet someone who believes you are too much to know that they aren’t for you…
Once we let go of the outcome, we free up that energy and allow it to come to us. Let go, trust the universe and watch what happens.
Aaron Doughty
The only reason letting go is “hard” is because we believe that if we let something go, it won’t come back or happen the way we want.
Aaron Doughty
Episode 89 of the Twilight Zone( 4th season, maybe 4th episode) is hard. To make peace with seeing. The very ones you loved on the most can harbor the most rancid hatred towards you for no reason. Instead of harboring hatred for those who looked like him who decimated his soul… he instead reeks of rage against those who loved him up out of that abyss. Even though what betrayed him had his eyes when he looks in the mirror…he writhes and withers from within with hatred in every other direction. Out of malignant cowardice.
Watching Latinos angrily tell Black people to “humble themselves & help Latinos find a way out of this ” Trump shit they cosigned like he Didn’t Openly say They were in his crosshairs …seething with hatred towards us for accepting them as they decided to be towards us with Kamala as the effigy of an “us” they incompetently, incoherently loathed…
IS not the end of civilization. Black people resting from these hater games with sick people just might be.
They wanted to hate right along with the skinheads.
So they did.
Still do, even watching their people be loaded up for TV ratings onto military planes.
It’s the quiet quitting.
It’s all the non-92% trying to join in on the rest of the 92% as a new costume for them expecting Black women to pick up their psychological slack.
It’s watching the cognitive dissonance of modern women facing those now in power hate Them as a monolith More than they hate black people, women who have milked the brunt of those rights black people bled for, for generations.
YES… THEY LIED. IT WASN’T A MANDATE. IT WASN’T EVEN A 1% WIN.
… but it shouldn’t have been anywhere near 1% in the first place.
no bitching or rage here.
… Just fact.
“What you are aware of you are in control of, what you are not aware of is control of you”
-Anthony De Mello
“Nobody is afraid of the unknown, what you really fear is the loss of the known.”
-Anthony De Mello