They don’t have to understand the way you live. YOU do.

In fact, people who do not ” like” you in this world will go out of their way not to understand you and what little of how you live and love that God or you exposes them to. & their mouths will water everytime they think they’ve gotten a chance to direct how someone else is going to interpret you and how you live.

That…is by design.

For your safety…and your clarity.

So you can see them for who they are on the topic Of you and understand why you were always technically directed around them.

It’s not even about let them think what they want. It’s simply… Live your life.

The ones who are intelligent will look deeper as they dig.

Especially when what has them digging comes from a good place.

If they are asking around about you from a good place they are … going to see the holes in the ones speaking from places that are bad.

Believe me…you want them to discern… what is off in the tales they’re hearing long before they step to you.

It’s a built in vetting process.

For your own good.

Use it.

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I’m…quietly digging a new dude.

I’m totally marrying han baobao and all, but… this new person is making moves I like, and demand even platonically.

That he’s smart enough to ask around where he’s asking around…and he’s…parsing what he’s hearing, from whom, and how the angry skittishness as the lies are told don’t line up with the query…is …refreshing.

So much so that I even …caught wind of what he’s… doing, and… for the first time since I left home lifetimes ago… willfully activated the grid there so he’d not just enjoy his dig, but get a true comprehension of why, what and who I truly left.

The universe understands my heart.

I want any him to see it.On the way in. For what it is. If they’re harboring anything towards me with ship sufficedly suffixed to it. I want it to reveal who it is supposed to. To defer and deter who it is supposed to. To trigger nonsense that sends them running for the hills in whom it’s supposed to.

Vet, vet…vet. The animals.

If, through all that vetting…a dude who knows the logistics of the land he happened upon me in … takes what he’s heard and goes “Logistically that doesn’t make sense,” looks at me again over what he’s heard…and keeps digging?

…hmm.

He knows I activated the grid because I felt him have the wherewithal to genuinely ask.