“What if this is your ministry? What if we go to hell because of you?”

That right there, in no uncertain terms shows you that racism is nothing but a Narc ploy, wanting you completely invested in how horrible these people choose to be.

THEM GOING TO HELL CANNOT BE YOUR FAULT FOR NOT POURING YOURSELF OUT FOR THEM. THEM GOING TO HELL FOR THE BULLSHIT THEY DO IS THE ONLY TICKET THEY PUNCHED.

Them being the “racist monsters you know” keeps them front and center in your life, lets them be the main character[ in their opinions] and that’s all they want. the Loosh… the energy suck.

From their pov “You’re supposed to fight for them” because your existence is supposed to be a plot device for their cowardly bullshit.

If you grew up with narcs like this, using whatever “ist” or “ic” they use to suck your attention away from living your god-given life… You will feel a JOY you have never felt before when you finally go no-contact and leave them with the shit they want you to fight with them to knock out their hands.

& yeah… they may harass you on the far side of walking away.

They’ll do all kinds of dumb shit to not face what they are, where they are and what they chose. Present tense.

Just… gird your loins and be willing to call the cops if they get crazy. Without talking it out with them.

Times have changed. No more parlay is the safest fn way.

Toss’em to the skin walkers and pigs they choose, yall.

The longer you wait, the more you’ll rue the time you wasted when you finally do.

Because they are NOT your ministry. God don’t hate you like that, They do.

You better choose yourself and recognize they’d rather murk you than peaceably allow you to choose you .

From their pov they are never going to choose doing right by you. Ever.

In the choice between them and you…it’s always gonna be you punished for breaking free.

So… chose you before they find ways to sacrifice your light in jealousy of it.