...Things that the man who loves me knows:

I have joyfully been fighting boys for sport for 45+ years...almost like my grandma was some Mongolian princess who refused to get married unless her suitor could...you know lol and it's in my blood (even though her mom's family was from Guangzhou). The entirety of my God given athleticism is keyed to dancing and gleefully amazon-ing out on boys like the egalitarian I was raised to be. Yet~ all the open this/ but imma girl~ schtuff still stands 🫠. It's a sweet, demented combo that he loves because he gets me.