Many men are so ready to disparage the strength a woman finds to go on after he failed her because that “flaking ON her” was a strategic decision & she was supposed to fall, to wither and die without him.
He’s not just angry she got strong. He’s angry him withholding his help and strength did not end her, then becomes jealous of the cockiness that comes with a woman’s animus taking the wheel. Kids of divorce know this beast well, often.
His dumb shit not befalling her the way he hoped & designed now adds a layer of threatening to it all.
Because he left her to fail after supposedly sucking her dry, thinking she was a patsy, an easy target. She was supposed to turn to dust, but she usually turns into the man he’d never had the balls to be in the first place, willing to do what it takes going forward.
Her victories are cast as masculine in direct correlation to his wickedness at the root of the entire thing sprouting from him being a petty cunt of a man in his spirit. The imbalance is palpable but it’s only possible because it had been festering in the man first. She was supposed to die like a weak woman, not usurping his position as the man needed in his willful absence.
If your Clarion call is “I’m Goin to leave and she won’t survive without me” you were not a man to begin with. You were a spoiled rotten, air-dried piece of shit she’ll have every right to be grateful flushed itself. & all your avenging Your honor against her not dying without your corny ass-harassing her for surviving your bullshit WILL come back to roost with your ass.
They want it all on the woman. Because, even gimped by this system by other men they wouldn’t dare face off with, they’ve at least been guaranteed the gift of social infaliability in comparison To any woman, no matter how infantilizing they are towards woman, nor how infantile they are in their interactions with them.
That Doctor Umar called them on it that hard to their faces …is new.
But don’t kid yourself that this is “things Black men do” issue.
The brunt of white men in the United States of America are using the same litany of nonsense to justify their not rising up and being men too, not beating back the pedophiles.
Every time I hear any even remotely successful white man start lothario-ing out with all his Divine Feminine take the lead rebranding…it makes the Amazon in me want to cut out his lazy fucking tongue because he’s already given up his fucking dick.
They want the women to rise up ?
NAH.
Because if we do, any misstep is going to be mamsplained ( no typo) and criticized to death like them blabbering over their fantasy football stats.
What they ACTUALLY WANT…Is not not have to stand up against the men they’ve Let take charge.
It’s the same energetic garbage- a pretty, albeit synthetic Zara dress on weaponized incompetence, dressed up with a ‘refusal to broach the real problem’ hat worn to brunch.
They will resent the women who fight because the situation is so exacerbated that the women now must to not drown…all the same.
If you hear a white boy singing out ‘can we just let the divine feminine lead’ or ‘somebody’s gonna show up and save us… maybe the Canadians or the Mexicans ~
Hear me here: that motherless ( in his own mind, due to whatever his mom did or didn’t teach him, nevermind his dad) motherfucker is just trying to get laid during the apocalypse.
But never forget what apocalypse actually means.
He’s fucking useless.
By choice.
He’s already given up.
He’s willing to lose it all so as not to look like a dork trying to fight.
And he will bitch about how your divine fem ass does any shit he didn’t have the stomach or balls for from the fucking sidelines until you beat his ass like the fucking traitor he is… until he snaps outta it .
I can say “don’t buy the siren song, white women!!” But they’re still raw-dogging these mofos who took away their body autonomy rights in their faces and have criminalized ridding yourself of the parasitic seed they technically never had to open themselves to in the first place… so it’s possible they won’t be able to hear me.
It’s the same fucking beast immobilizing Black men in community, in different garb. They got the infection From the parasitic white dudes. Got led to drink from this fucked up brook until they forgot what manhood actually is.
A man is emasculated…by all the little battles with other men he cowers from or passively sidestepped. For fear of exertion alone.
Never forget… Self-Loathing in men is just self- obsession dressed up so you don’t see that all he gives a fuck about is himself. They “hate” themselves to publicly get away with only thinking about themselves thematically all the time.
The true-est man isn’t emasculated by a woman, no matter how rowdy she is. That’s why everyone lives for Beth.
The faces those men in that clip carry … those facial expressions are those of guys terrified to not stand down.
