“Let me be clear. This is not a takedown. It will rip down standards and banners that have been waved raucously overhead for years as the divine right of humans whose gonads tried to commit suicide by flinging themselves OUT of the warm, lush confines of the fleshy body (who are then programmed to spend eons denigrating those whose huevos were wise enough to remain stationed within them, whilst demanding rapacious access to those nicely nested eggs)-“
Your dick is only going to be in a sling if it angers you that you can’t look away from what I’m about to say, and what that really means.
Am I going to. rehash the definition of “gAy” in this instance? No.
This has only to do with those who’d catch a case over being called gay in public, who were nervously offended at the willfully blanket statement made:
The men presenting themselves as archetypes in that discussion sat there as representations of the young men tuned INTO said conversation, even though they are on average, twenty years older than those viewers.
& I won’t bust the balls of the fellow quinquagenarians /ˌkwɪŋ kwə dʒəˈnɛər i ənz/ due to knowing the dumbspeak they grew up having dumped into their heads as the gospel when it came to relationships, by elder family members, by friends[ in the absence of sane elders ] and by a society that was hellbent on producing communities of consumers.
The hardest thing for gen Xers to come to terms with is the simplest string of statements:
I was raised… wrong. My parents were facking idiots. their friends filling their heads were numbskulls. Most of the adults who I thought knew what they were talking about were the farthest from it. I have to figure out the true truth or die by their ignorance.
To set some quick parameters: This is not a diatribe to point fingers at the government for the set-up. There’s no “They’re the bad guys!!! Burn them!!” in this because too many ‘bad guys” were sic’d on all of us, en masse, to make sure the program took. Besides, all that noise slows you down from doing the only thing that breaks the program in the first place.
If you can get caught up in making those who led you astray pay…for victimizing you, for seeing you as a target and then setting their dogs upon you…for the energy suck inherent in Getting you to believe dumb shit in the first place… you side-step the breakthrough of thinking for yourself.
You just stomp a hole into the one who abused you and then do what? Pour out all your anger…into the wound you gave them…back. Is it cathartic? Fuck yes. But if you tilt your head you’ll see you’re still in it. Your force-feeding them the vitriol that poisoned you, giving it back to them…but you’re still feeding them the very energy they lusted after in the first place.
Yes, they did it. They ALL did it. For their own reasons. Outright collusion, I say. But they did it to get you too caught up to think for your Self and consciously nurture your Self into Being the Best you they could always jealously see you had the capacity to be. Regardless of them.
In this breath you get to decide whether you are going to spend the rest of your life figuring out how you feel and think about things, how you AIM to relate to the world, or spend the rest of it defining you by dumb shit people longed to do to you to slow you down.
Now…onto to the games.
For those of you who are looking for footnotes, to pretend like you really need an air of scholarly authority danced across this for you to pretend to uptake this, we know you never take the deep dives yourself after all that crowing but sure. Here…knock yourself out:
Go ahead… click on it. A plethora of pathways to wander down in search of deeper truths than you posit I can possibly deliver in this here missive. Roads that you will never take because you are posturing in your uproar as much as you are in your fixation. I offer you the latest cornucopia of …gnosis… to dip thine chalice in, then drink.
HOW IS IT GAY, THOUGH?! DAMMIT! GET BACK TO THE INSULT- I MEAN query AT HAND!! WHAT? AM I SUPPOSED TO SHOW …TO ACT LIKE I CARE…FOR THE PERSON [persons] I STICK MY DICK INTO IN FRONT OF PEOPLE??
*cough.
Why does… a man… act standoffish and dismissive of the woman he crawls inside when in front of his ‘boys”? Because he doesn’t want his boys…to see… him be as open with a woman…as happy, and smiling, and playful…as he is with them.
& It’s a structured, sussed out agreement between both him AND his boys…before any outside appearances with the woman begrudgingly in question go down.
That diffidence displayed? It’s so somebody he knows has or is subconsciously salivating for that D in unspeakable ways…wont be upset or treat him oddly the next time they see one another. He’s trying to keep chill the anima inside of another man.
& The Betas are NOTORIOUS for this shit. It’s the root of why they give their guy friends SUCH HELL when they do find someone who is actually good for them.
It is also why a guy’s ‘boys” will keep him strung up in a relationship with a woman who is totally ghoulishly horrific for their “friend” & 100% counter to what that friend has on his heart… because her being a bitch, her being a horrible woman…cements lines already drawn in the sand About women…which then solidifies their toxic male unions.
& -though totally only using it as a sketch, Godfrey going “That’s INSANITY!!” opens a whole other can of what I am referring to.
Kodjoe going and telling the chick he knew he was going to marry and have two kids with was seen, even 20+ years on the far side of having done to to have been spot-on, as insanity because unless you have a damned near divine crop of men curated around you as a man, men for the most part lead other men to be cowards and punkasses.
Men tend to lead other men to never have the courage to speak, say or show how they feel, for fear of their guy friend getting their feelings “hurt.” To be Less than men, and then to broadly carry that compromised standard as though it were the original one, and the rest of the cowardly cuck dudes who’d rather play playstation thigh to thigh with their guys fall right in line.
They look at men like Kodjoe as traitors. & you can see, even in Kodjoe’s paced delivery that he’s braced For that reaction to what he says. That he’s been through the dark places that subject, that topic often goes. But the steely look in his eyes also shows he’s ready for it.
But speaking of dark places this whole topic can go to, lets go to another darker zone.
It comes down to sex.
The person you sleep with is emblematic of how you feel about yourself.
When I say “emblematic” we can say that …to a guy, the girl is a shield. raised. To the outside world, looking in. That is the hope.That is the take the system wants the populace to have. That justifies a lot of Andrew Tate crew shit.
So…if you treat the woman you are with sexually… decently… it means that… you see you decently.
SO… if your boys…have put in a demand that you talk trash about the bitch you put your dick in…it’s because they need you… to see yourself… at your core… as trash… in order to be in their friend group.
IF you gotta dog the chick you fuck in public, refuse her affection if anyone is around- so you being open to softness is never documented….it’s not about the world. It’s that your inner circle has already poisoned you about truly doing anything with anyone that could better yourself.
Nigga, you Caint be making love to yourself housed in her! You gotta be FUCKING – FUCK HER! SHE AINT SHIT! IT’S ABOUT YOU- AND YOU ARE A MAN! -“
-usually being proclaimed like the Ten Commandments by a guy that looks like the one on the cusp of breaking free…
THEY will swear up and down “you gotta protect you,” 💯.
All while they’re giving you all kinds of fucked up advice that leads to you breaking up your marriage, your working partnerships- anything that was going to affect you positively and make you a better man. Because you AS a better man… can’t look to him with the love in you he wants for solely himself.
In their mind you should be fucking what they want you to look like fucking.
You either gotta:
Fulfill Their fanatical fantasies of vicariously fucking Through you- these are the ” you gotta be a certain kind of hot for my friends’ eyes” guys…
Or you gotta come back with lurid tales of what you got some broad to do to whale them with so they can be okay imagining you naked… doing all that…
… but to be gently wrapped up in someone? Receiving affection?
Nope.
These dudes HATE that shit.
Because the idea of you receiving THAT sets them off in a wholly different way. To be unpacked a different day…if you need …help.
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